
What we treat
Play Therapy in Natick, MA
Play therapy at Aurora Counseling Associates is the primary way our clinicians work with younger children, generally ages 3 to about 10. Play is how children process experience, work through what is hard, and develop the inner skills they need. A play therapist watches what the child is showing through their play, gently engages, and uses the play to help the child move through what brought them in.
What play therapy is
Play therapy is not babysitting and it is not a child playing with toys while a therapist watches passively. It is a trained intervention that uses the natural language of childhood (play) to help children work through anxiety, behavior concerns, family transitions, trauma, neurodivergence, and the everyday struggles of growing up that have become bigger than they need to be.
A play therapy session might involve:
- Toys and small figures that allow a child to act out family scenes, school scenes, or imagined scenes that mirror what they are working on internally.
- Sand tray work, where the child arranges figures in sand and the arrangement becomes the conversation.
- Drawing and art-making as another expressive channel.
- Storytelling and dollhouse play, which often surface what a child has not been able to put into words.
- Games that build specific skills (impulse control, frustration tolerance, social skills, emotion identification) while also building the relationship.
- Movement and physical play when a child needs to discharge before they can engage.
The therapist's role is to be a steady, attuned presence; to track themes that emerge in the play over time; to use the play to help the child develop new responses; and to support the parents in helping that work move into the rest of the child's life.
Who play therapy is for
Children come for play therapy for many reasons. Common ones:
- Anxiety, which play therapy reaches through the natural language of childhood rather than talk. When anxiety is the primary concern, our anxiety therapy in Natick page goes deeper on how we treat it across ages.
- Behavior concerns that are overwhelming the family: outbursts, defiance, sibling conflict that has become destabilizing, behavior at school.
- Family transitions: divorce, separation, a new sibling, a death in the family, a move, a parent's deployment or extended absence.
- Grief and loss, including pet loss, which can hit children especially hard.
- Trauma: medical procedures, accidents, witnessing violence or chronic conflict, abuse, the loss of a caregiver.
- Neurodivergence: kids with ADHD, autism, sensory processing differences, or learning differences who benefit from play-based work on emotion regulation, social skills, and self-understanding.
- Adoption-related work and attachment-building in adoptive and foster families.
- Children who are struggling but cannot or will not talk about it. Play often gets to what talking cannot.
How play therapy works at Aurora
Several principles shape our play therapy work:
Parents are part of the work
We almost always have parent guidance running alongside the play therapy itself. Sometimes that is monthly parent sessions; sometimes it is parent-child sessions; sometimes it is brief check-ins at pick-up. The structure depends on what the family needs.
The play is the work, not the prelude to the work
We do not need the child to "open up and talk." The play is doing the work.
The pace is the child's
We do not push for emotional disclosure. Trust the child to bring what they need to bring, in the form they can bring it.
The room is a place the child looks forward to
A child who likes coming engages with the work. A child who dreads it does not.
Coordinating with schools and providers
We coordinate with schools and pediatricians when that helps the child.
What to expect
The first session is typically with the parents only. We use it to understand what is going on, gather background, and design the structure of the work. The second session is often the child's first time in the room.
Sessions are 45 minutes. Most children come weekly. Play therapy is often medium-length work: many children do focused work for 3 to 9 months and then check in periodically; some do longer work, depending on what they are working on.

Insurance and rates
Self-pay is $200 to $250 per session. In-network with BCBS, Tufts (HMO/PPO/GIC), Tufts Health Direct, Harvard Pilgrim, Point32Health, Optum, UBH, Mass General Brigham Health Plan, and Health Plans Inc. Some clinicians also accept Aetna and UHC; we confirm coverage at intake. HSA, FSA, and out-of-network superbills available. Rates and insurance.
Who you would work with
Clinicians who offer Play Therapy
Read how each person works before you reach out. If you are not sure who to ask for, we will help you choose.

Ruth Hanning, LMHC

Mary Patricia (MP) Reed, MA

Laura Buckley, LMHC
These clinicians list this as a specialty. Most of our team works with it in some form, so if you have someone in mind, ask and we will tell you whether the fit makes sense.
Questions
Common questions
My child just wants to play. Will anything happen?
Will the therapist tell me what my child played about?
How long will play therapy take?
Can my child do play therapy if they are neurodivergent?
Do you do play therapy over telehealth?
How do I prepare my child for the first session?
Will my child resent me for sending them to therapy?
Where to next
Related areas we work in
Get started
Ready when you are
If your child is struggling in a way you cannot quite reach, reach out or call (508) 650-0991. We will help you start.
